He helps.
But who
runs everything?
He took out the bins. Lovely. Who noticed, remembered the collection day, and reminded him? Let’s audit the work nobody puts on the list.
12 questions · About 2 minutes · Free. No sign-up.
MENTAL LOAD AUDIT
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“JUST ASK” IS ALSO A JOB.
Think about your usual shared responsibilities.
A score. A verdict. A paper trail.
A result card made for the group chat.
Entertainment, not relationship science. This score reflects your answers about shared responsibilities, not hours worked or a literal percentage of labor. Capacity, paid work, caring roles, and agreed arrangements matter.
Answer about his usual behavior, not his best-ever Tuesday.
Your invisible work.
Now on the record.
The group chat had a theory.
Now it has an attachment.
No finding is final until the girls have seen it.
Your results stay here unless you choose to share. No names required. His legal team can relax.
Who Could You Be One Year From Now?
Earn more. Think bigger. Know your worth. Build a life — and relationships — you’re excited to wake up to.
Tell us what you want more of. Discover your priorities, explore your income goals, and picture the woman you could become.
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How did the lab calculate this?
The first 11 questions contribute 0–5 points each. The final continuity question contributes 0–7, giving it 1.4 times the weight. The full maximum is 62 points. Your score is your total divided by the maximum for the questions you answered, rounded to 100. Skipped questions are excluded. Category notes reflect the highest average scores in your answers. The same answers always produce the same result.
This is an entertainment score, not a validated assessment. Different questions and weights would produce different results. Higher scores mean your answers describe more responsibility concentrated with you. This is not a time-use survey or a measured share of household labor. Discuss whole-task ownership and a fair arrangement for your actual circumstances.
